As the end of the school year approaches children will be saying goodbye to teachers who have taught them all year. Perhaps they will also be saying goodbye to a coach as their participation in a sport ends for the season, or as they move on to another sport or activity. It is important to acknowledge the role the teacher or coach has played in your child’s life. This does not have to mean purchasing a gift; instead a personal note, a photo, or face-to-face thank you are wonderful gifts and very appreciated.
Recently a parent told a coach that it would be too upsetting for their child to come in and say goodbye in person. Helping one’s child through separation anxiety and other emotional issues is a key element of growing up.  Even though it is very difficult for a parent to see their child get upset, helping them handle the situation is an empowering experience that builds coping skills. 
Children are intuitive and generally cautious with adults. In gymnastics, building trust with one’s students is a key element needed for learning and safety. When it comes time to say goodbye, recognizing the bond that has been built is respectful and appropriate.
Perhaps as a parent you have a different impression of a coach or teacher than your child. Some teachers and coaches actually relate better to children than adults. Listen to your children with the understanding that their experience with a coach may be different from yours.  Even if your experience with a coach or teacher hasn’t been optimal, leaving on a positive note sets an example of respect. Lessons are learned from every type of experience and your child will have many situations to negotiate as they go through life. Saying thank you is always appreciated.
So as the school year is drawing to a close and when your children leave summer camps, make some time in your busy schedule to acknowledge your children’s teachers and coaches. They will  feel appreciated and may share anecdotes about  your children that you might not have heard otherwise.  Thanking teachers and coaches will also teach your children a life skill. Children and people who appreciate the time and effort their teachers and coaches invest in them, are more fun to teach. The respect shown to those working with your children gets mirrored in the way they teach. Learning comes more easily in an environment of mutual respect. A thank you can open doors throughout life.